It can be confusing, I suppose, the world of financial domination. With so many different manifestations of findom and so many different ways to express it, an individual can easily get lost. I get it. But it is important that you are aware of your own place. In order to know your place it has to be outlined for you, well most of you since when interacting with Me the blood seems to flow away from your brain and you become imbeciles.
So where do you fit in? At what niveau is your devotion to financial domination? There is nothing wrong with being where you are but an individual should be aware of where they fit in, where they want to go. I have a simple enough system of categories, easy to follow. And yes, you might fit between categories or find yourself not well represented within My system. That is the wonderful part of financial domination with Me, it is always evolving.
The customer archetype is an individual who submits through purchase. Usually files or games. The domination is minimal but still very real. Unlike others the customer expects and receives something in return for their money. It could be argued that the customer does not even belong as an archetype of findomme.
The client or caller spends much of their money to spend one on one time with Me. This is either through phone, cam or text. The client archetype tributes as well. The domination aspect comes from the amount of time they are spending with Me, the minute rate. Which can be played with as well.
Those with a fetish, a sexualised need to have your finances dominated but still want some interaction as well. This are the tributes, the sacrifices, the gifts. Sometimes there is an interaction between us but not always. For some this represents itself as “drive-by” gifting or tributes. The fetishist is a complex archetype with many, many ways it presents itself.
The Financial Domination submissive
The submissive requires an interaction, a wallet draining or raping. Though completely committed to funding My lifestyle, the submissive requires attention, a reminder that they belong to Me. That they are Mine. The submission comes through their wallet before anything else.
The Financial slave
Oh what a lovely archetype the financial domination slave is. There is no interaction, they delight solely in the knowledge that their money in sustaining My lifestyle. There is no interaction, no back and forth. Money goes from their hand and into Mine. Many refer to these as “pay pigs” or similar titles. I think slavery is a better description. A slave provides for its Owner.
So where do you fit in? Where do you want to fit in?
How do you approach a Domme when looking for Financial Domination?
The first step is to always send a tribute. Send an email with it if you must, talking about what type of relationship you are looking for. The important part is proving you are actually looking for a proper Financial Domme. All too often I receive messages, emails and texts of people begging Me to dominate them financially. Well, if you are not willing to part with a small tribute to prove you are serious, you are not worth My time.
More on that to come!
Maîtresse Ambre Jade